October 18, 2016
Passion drives me day to day, and my passion is mostly around my family, my home, and my children. I recently attended a huge [somewhat work-related] event in San Francisco, along with 170,000 other people, and I had the privilege of listening into a couple of empowering and motivating speeches.
Nadine Burke Harris is a pediatrician, a mom, and an advocate. She speaks with passion and evidence. She explained how she was faced with hundreds of patients daily with a common diagnosis: ADHD. However, when she looked deeper at her patients' circumstances, she realized that their social conditions were causing brain-altering stress and that they did not necessarily suffer from ADHD at the core. Rather, these children suffered from "adverse childhood experiences" that lead to health and societal problems. She explained how relieved her patients were to know they did not really suffer from ADHD!
Melinda Gates is a mom, high tech professional, and philanthropist. She believes everyone has value, and she shared how heartbreaking it was to visit Africa 20 years ago when AIDS-infected women would be left by the wayside to die. Through her work, much advancement has been made in treating AIDS and HIV, especially in Africa. She wants to eradicate HIV.
These amazing people - these women, these mothers - are changing the world, changing the way we see things, and changing the way we do things. As I listened to them, I kept thinking: how do I breed a change agent just like them? How do I make huge change in the way they make huge change, both in my personal life and in my professional life? What drives them to scale impact and how do they get it done? What can each of us do to make the world a better place, in big ways and in small?
I like to think that giving birth to urbanMamas was one of the biggest things I've done. Five years ago, when I moved away, I slowly stepped away from it, though I never completely left it behind. Now, I realize that urbanMamas is a home to me, it is a passion to me, it is what I want to leave behind, it is the impact I want to have. I come back to the site, intending it to transcend geographies, hoping to resurrect it as a place where we can come for support, for laughs, for new insight, for a safe place to share.
As it was in the beginning, we cannot do this alone. If you want to help, please reach out. It takes a village.